– the timeless truth in professional services
It’s an old cliché, but it holds true: business relationships win you work, especially when selling professional services to potential or existing clients. Trust and belief are the cornerstones of any successful business relationship. Over time, these relationships are built, nurtured, and solidified, creating a spectrum of client trust. At one end, we have clients who trust us implicitly and wouldn’t consider going elsewhere for the services we provide. At the other end, there are those cold or lukewarm contacts who don’t know us well enough to buy from us, no matter how compelling our proposition might be.
This article aims to get you thinking more deeply about the relationships you have – or want to have.
Despite the challenges posed by global economic downturns and the evolving landscape of communication through social media, relationships built on trust remain crucial. However, a common pitfall for those selling professional services is focusing too much on the ‘selling’ aspect and not enough on the ‘buying’ perspective. By reversing this viewpoint and considering your services through the eyes of your buyers, you are more likely to succeed in relating to and persuading them; it’s why getting to understand where the client is on their buyer journey is oh so important.
Building relationships in professional services firms requires a strategic approach. Partners and fee earners must be selective about who they invest their time with and how they allocate their precious business development hours. This is particularly challenging in environments where there is a relentless focus on the utilisation of chargeable time and recoverability. Many relationships demand significant investment of time and effort, often by individuals who have little of it to spare. These investments may not convert into chargeable work for a year or two, if at all.
Fee earners face the dilemma of whether to persist or give up on these relationships. They certainly don’t want to come across as pestering or desperate in their pursuit of work, as this would hardly build trust. Instead, the key is to strike a balance between persistence and patience, ensuring that the relationship is nurtured without overwhelming the potential client.
Managing relationships over the long term is crucial for sustaining business growth and client loyalty. Here are some practical tips to help you maintain and nurture these relationships effectively:
In the world of professional services, relationships are the bedrock of success. By focusing on building trust and understanding the buyer’s perspective, sellers can create lasting connections that lead to sustained business growth. Remember, it’s not just about making the sale; it’s about fostering relationships that stand the test of time.
You may find the following resources valuable about relationship building helpful too:
When Did You Last Evaluate Your Business Relationships? – Determine which of the six types of business relationships you have and assess whether they are strong enough to win you work. https://jaconsulting.co.uk/when-did-you-last-evaluate-your-business-relationships/
Trust in Business – The Core Concepts – The Trust Equation, Trust Creation Process and Trust Principles in a business relationship can be found at: http://trustedAdvisor.com/articles/trust-in-business-the-core-concepts
The Trusted Advisor – Maister, David H., Green, Charles H., and Galford, Robert M.. 20th Edition, 2021 https://trustedadvisor.com/books/the-trusted-advisor
Principled Selling: How to Win More Business Without Selling Your Soul. Tovey, David, 2012 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Principled-Selling-More-Business-Without/dp/074946657X
And a final thought
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