It’s almost a year since we first entered lockdown here in the UK and so much has changed in our working and personal lives. New words and phrases have entered our everyday vocabulary. The other day I was reflecting on this whilst out on a socially distanced cycle ride with a neighbour and remarked that I hadn’t meet anyone face to face in a business context since lockdown 1.0. He enquired, had we managed to keep going and I commented that yes, in fact we had won business with new customers. I started to talk about how actually from a sales perspective, not much has actually changed, before becoming temporarily distracted and having to take evasive action to avoid the large puddle ahead.
Now settled back in the warmth of my study, it made me think. Is selling in the virtual world really that different? I thought it might be helpful to expand on why I think some things haven’t changed.
There is no doubt, we have had to hit the accelerator pedal hard and accelerate into a new virtual world. We have had to learn a whole bunch of new tools, Teams, Zoom, Google Meet, etc. Whilst these are new and we all like new tech, a lot of the behaviours that are needed to have a successful sales outcome are still required.
All the research conducted into sales success, indicates that verbal behaviours are super important, whether its listening, asking the right type of questions, or pausing and not filling the silence. And now, when you can be sucked in by all this new tech, it’s much harder to pick up on non-verbal indicators. Utilising these verbal skills and behaviours in a virtual context is now even more important.
Before I move on, the most important sales skill and often the most underrated, is Active Listening.
And the problem with increasing automation in the sales process, there is increased pressure to close deals faster, even more so in today’s Covid world. But to help prospects get what they actually want, you need to understand their needs; which means you need to listen.
Which reminds me of some great advice I was given when I first started out. My manager told me I needed to act like Mickey Mouse, to which I replied I’m not quite sure what you mean. The reply came “Mickey has two big ears, two eyes and one mouth, use yours in that ratio”; advice I never forgotten!!!
So, what are some of things as a seller you should be doing, in addition to active listening to make your virtual meeting as successful as it can be?
And a final thought – Is selling in a virtual world really that different?
When I pedal out this weekend and we pick on the conversation again, I’ll reflect and say yes, we have some new technology, yes we can’t meet prospects face to face, but the basics of having a successful sales conversations haven’t really changed.
Don’t let the technology take the lead, make sure you take control, do the basics right and success will follow.
And a final thought
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